Love Yourself Well by Lo Bosworth

Author:Lo Bosworth
Language: eng
Format: epub
Publisher: HarperCollins
Published: 2022-10-25T00:00:00+00:00

Happy Vagina Goal #3: Intimacy

Love your sexy self by getting to know your vagina, intimately.

TAKE A LOOK

Vulva mapping is like a self-guided exploration of every cranny, fold, and nub of your genitals. (For a refresher on your genital parts, go to Lady Parts: A Quick Overview.) It should only take about ten minutes to identify the vital parts, from the clitoris at the top to the anus at the bottom, and all the openings, lips, and sensitive bits in between. Make a drawing, if so inspired. How can you love something that you’ve never even looked at? It’s not scary! It’s beautiful because it’s a very important part of you.

“Many, many patients tell me that they don’t like how they look because one of their labia minora is longer than the other,” said Dr. Horton. “How you feel about your appearance matters. It can affect your self-esteem and your desire to be sexual.” She suspects the concern about symmetry started from early exposure to porn or a remark from an ignorant boyfriend. “Criticism early on in their sexual lives makes women self-conscious,” she said. “Could you imagine if a girl told her boyfriend, ‘Wow, your dick is really small!’ How often would that happen? Girls are worried that boys will like them and that they look ‘normal.’ Every day, women ask me about labiaplasty, a surgical procedure to trim their inner lips. I tell them, ‘No one is symmetrical. You are normal and fine.’”

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